To Clear Things Up

[imood mood at time of entry: pissy]

I wasn’t going to disclose the full details of the whole Cris two girlfriends thing, but I will now.

OK, it really isn’t this happy occasion that some people might think it is. Allow me to explain.

In all that time that Cris was asking me to sleep with him he was talking to other girls. He met Ashley on a chatline here about four weeks ago. He said that he got on and was honest about what he wanted. He started talking to a few girls at the same time. One of the girls, it turns out, he knew from our neighborhood. They both went to the same school and even lived near each other. She freaked out and didn’t want to talk anymore. So he started talking to Ashley. They exchanged phone numbers and had been talking for the past three weeks. They went out a couple of times too. They got together officially last Friday (December 26, 2003).

Melaine is a girl that he’s been friends with for the last year or so. In that time they’ve gone out as friends, but he’s asked her to be his girlfriend on a number of occasions. All of which she said “No.” because she wanted them to be friends. So he went on to other people.

The reason I’m sort of pissed is because he’s playing these girls. He did it with me and now he’s taken it to a whole new level this time around. He got with Ashley and Melaine on the very same day. Neither girl knows this. See, Ashley and him made things official around 2 in the afternoon. Four hours later, Melaine called and asked if he remembered when he had asked her to be his girlfriend all those times. He said “Yes.” and she asked if she could be his girlfriend. Instead of saying “No.” like he should have he said “Yes.” The very next night (Saturday, December 27, 2003) he went out on another date with Ashley to the movies. He said the reason he didn’t say “No.” to Melaine is because she was like this project that he had been working on for almost a year and didn’t want all that hard work to go to waste.

So you see it isn’t a good thing that he is with these girls at te same time. I did bring up the threesome idea because I am trying my hardest to live vicariously through my friends since Prestina has said “No.” to having a round with Dame’on and another guy. He said that wasn’t going to happen since Melaine wants to remain a virgin until marriage for the most part. He said that he doesn’t know where Ashley is sexually because they haven’t talked about that. So the whole orgy thing could never work. Not only because the whole scandelous nature of his relationships, but also because I am not interested at all. The thought and Lytewyng’s comment gave me a good laugh though.

It also couldn’t happen because Cris admitted that all he wanted was sex and I can’t do that to myself. I am much too special to allow myself to be used like that. I would never disrespect my body and myself like that. He did say that the sex could have brought us back together. He doesn’t understand that I don’t want us back together. I will acknowledge the attraction, but a relationship is clearly out of the question as he is a manipulative dog who deserves to have his teeth knocked out sometimes. Guh. I told him this too. I told him that I knew that he only saw me as a piece of ass. He said that I made it sound dirty. I told him that it was dirty.

We talked last night for 35 minutes while he jumped down my throat over some stupid message that I left two day ago on Sunday (December 31, 2003). Whatever. I just told him on the message that it was obvious that he wouldn’t answer his phone for me and that if he didn’t want to be friends with me. I told him that he should have said so and that it was whatever. He came at me all mad and said that I “overreacted”. I called his phone several times and let it ring 5, 6, 7 times and he never picked up. I just figured that he was busy. But when Prestina called it rang three times before he picked up. So was I overreactting? You tell me.

Anyway, I hope that I cleared everything up for everyone. That is pretty much what was talked about concerning the girls. He told me a little what they were like, but I don’t see the need to include that unless someone simply wants to know that information.

Well on to do my entry. I think that I will skip forward a day.

Ooo! I just got off the phone with Cris. He said that he was at the mall with four guys “ho hunting”. Now does that sound like a suitable guy to you? He already has two women. When I told him this he said that it was “just for fun”. Hrmm. . . He made me get off the phone because he was passing Victoria Secrets and I was “ruining his experience”. Humph! I called him a pig and he said “Ok.” *shakes head* I have some terrible friends. Pfft. I’m just glad that I am not in the way of all that terrible-ness.