Sex in America

I have to go to work today. Yea!!! After yesterday’s performance I just can’t wait to get there.

I have met this lovely man who says that he is a writer. I don’t see any reason to doubt him really. Besides I like writers. I have a great rescpet for those who have the ability to bend words, thoughts, and concepts.

We were talking about sex in America and I just wanted to post part of am email that I sent him since these are my true feeligs on the subject. I really do think that America is backwards.

OK, I have to get ready.

But here it is:

Yea, getting “gritty” and getting to know your fellow human beings is always fun. I like to do this often as possible. Of course I am still out and exploring things, but not fully. Just toying with ideas. Adjusting to certain things, you know, becoming move comfortable in my skin and the world around me. “Flashing” is where someone gives you a brief look at what is considered to be a “private area.” Usually when girls “flash” they show their breasts and when a guy “flashes” he shows his penis.

I have only been homeschooled for the last semester. So before that I was subject to the lovely atmosphere of public schools. They had their good things and their bad things though.

Teens and sex? OK. Well, me personally I have always had a sexually sense. I do not know if I can convey this too you, but I will try. I have always known what sex is. I have always been able to be in a state of arousal. I knew of other people talking about sex when I was in elementary. The elementary school I went to was probably the same as any. The children there were as sexually curious as I was. We kissed each other and felt of each other’s bodies. It is just natural curiosity about each others bodies. But then you hit your teens, the whole world says that it is wrong. That then screws you up for the rest of your life!! If society really wanted to nip things in the bud they couldn’t. Not really. Even when we were in all girls classes the girls experimented with each other. Though I was asked I did not realize until later in middle that I had been asked. I cannot even say that I handled it very well.

I’m not sure about virginity talk in itself. I think that was around middle school. It was lighter than at say a high school. One middle school that I went to had tons of girls who were pregnant. It was quite sad really. Most of the younger girls had the most babies as they were young and wanted to prove how cool they were. Of course the boys being the dogs that they were at that school took advantage of a lot of girls. I made sure not to date too much at that school.

If parents would get over their embarrassment of sex and how children are made and that whole subject they would save a lot of their children a lot of trouble. The parents are really the ones to blame when a lot of the younger girls end up with babies. They won’t talk to their children. They attach a shame to sex that should not be there. No one here is allowed to be open with there sexuality except guys and that is not right.

Here in America everyone would rather their little babies to go watch people be shot or stabbed to death or blown to bits. This is so backwards. Instead of showing loving, tender images of people in caring relationship,s they see everyone getting divorces and cheating on there spouses. Kind of messed up huh?

~_~ Danielle ~_~